Micro-aggression often overlooked

Throughout my life, I have heard words that disrespect my religion. I have been affected by the media and people who use words intended to offend and mock followers of the Islamic religion.

Throughout my days in school, I constantly hear people using phrases such as “Wallahi” and “Allahu Akbar.” In my religion, these arabic words mean “I swear on God’s name (“Wallahi”),” a word used as a promise to God, and “Allah is great (Allahu Akbar),” a word used during prayer. While these words hold meaning to me because of my religion, others use them in offensive ways by speaking them jokingly despite not caring what the word holds within the religion.

I’ve dealt with people staring at me, looking at me like I am barely human. I often find myself hearing the Muslim stereotypes and think “where has this come from?” Sometimes I begin questioning the characteristics of my religion, despite knowing that Islam’s root word is “salaam,” which means peace.

There have been a times when a non-muslim person has shown interest in my religion and will ask about the meaning behind its customs and traditions. However, instead of respecting my perspective, outsiders choose to twist what I share about the religion by intentionally manipulating my words and using them in incorrect, offensive ways.

I learned about other religions at school and in no way or form have I made fun of them or told them they are wrong. The media gives the wrong image about Islam claiming Muslims are equal to terrorism. This gives the impression that the entire Muslim community is at fault for the actions of Muslim individuals.

In addition to my own personal experiences, my family has felt the struggle of being Muslim in unimaginable ways. They have been stopped at the airport or stores because they looked suspicious in the eyes of non-Muslims. My parents go through so much, and sometimes I’ve been afraid for their lives. A person should not feel paranoid in their community simply because of their religion and lifestyle.

My headscarf, my father’s beard, and my mother’s dress makes us a target in society. As a result of the awful way Muslims are treated by many, I have felt bad for myself and have even questioned if I should take off my hijab. Despite all of this, I know this is what I believe and the actions of my peers do not define me as a person.